The two attached images are from my husbands bio-logical mothers facebook page. Her name is Vicky and the other person on the page is his half-sister Brandy. Ahh, the wonderful world of facebook. So sit back and enjoy the "dirty laundry" cause its all being aired. --Please keep in mind you will have to click on each image and then again to make it large enough to read.
Yes, we have recently once again, cut them out of our lives. Not a surprise....I know. Why you ask, well because they bring my family drama. My husband Cory Bay has never liked his half-sister Brandy and has stated several times over that she is dead to him, not to call him, write him, to stay away. His mother Vicky is just as bad as her daughter. you know the old saying:
The apple doesn't fall from the tree.
They both feed on drama. About five years seven years ago we let Vicky back into our lives under one condition NO DRAMA.....that did not last long.
On Vickys next post to her facebook page she states: that I didn't mind her coming down to help me move---W R O N G. I did not want her there. I wanted nothing to do with her then either. Cory asked me to do this one favor for him and to get along. I got along but only because my husband asked me to be the bigger person. She goes on to rant about how I wanted my husband to die in Afghanistan (really woman) are you kidding me? Who says that? And, yet theres Brandy unable to keep her mouth shut and saying how "his blood is on my hands." She also states that I have cheated on him....Is this true. Yes, it is. About a year after we were married I contacted my ex-fiance and was talking to him on the internet. Cheating is cheating after all no matter the case. However, Cory and I have moved on from it.
The next one is this: Vicky bringing up my bio-logical father. His name is Charles W. McManus. Myself and another child were sexually molested by him when I was eight years old. He is now serving two life sentences in a prison in Arizona. I do believe its public record if you want to search for it. The drugs, yeah I did drugs when I was younger. I was 12 when I smoked my first joint. Then I was about 19 when I was introduced to crank by bio-logical mother Deborah Deger Brown. We would get high in her bathroom together. Yes, I was 19, I was old enough to make my own decisions I am considered to be an adult. Let me tell you, getting high off crank was one of the greatest sensations that I remember. I got hooked on crank for awhile. Never used any needles just smoked and snorted. Cocaine and Crank were my drugs of choice. I might as well throw this one out here too. I was a stripper on top of all of it. I was single mother, a druggie and was going nowhere good in life. I was a girlfriends house when Mari (age 3ish) got on her coffee table and said money. Her actions helped realize what I was doing was wrong. I quit stripping, I quit drugs, I quit the lifestyle. The joys of being raised in a "messed up" house.
But lets not forget about my husband. He was a well worse off then I was when it came to drugs and living a messed up childhood. Cory has been drinking since he was a teenager and his mother never stepped up to the plate to help him. She would let him leave all hours of the day and night to party. Her pathetic excuse goes like this: "I gave my kids a curfew and they would be home by then but I never told them they had to stay home" Vicky was to absorbed in her own life in Wichita Falls to pay any attention to what was really going on under her own roof. Cory was an alcoholic at such a young age and all because his mother was just not paying attention to what mattered most--her children. At one point in time she hated her sister Melvina Fernandez and blamed her for Cory's actions now she blames me.
The next sentence will leave most of you all speechless. Even Terry Cline would get high frequently. I can only say that it had to be pretty bad living with Vicky if her own husband had to get high to deal with her. Cory's lifestyle got to the point where he had hit rock bottom. If I am not mistaken he told me the day he realized he had gone to far was the day he had a gun held to his head. Why was his life spared that day? Don't believe me, then ask him he will tell you. Shortly after the gun incident he joined the USMC to better himself to get away from the lifestyle he had lived for so many years.
Do I need people to feel sorry for me absolutely not. I never have asked for it and never will. I did not have an easy life but the life I have lived has made me to be a strong independent woman. No regrets right. Brady also talks about flesh and blood. She is not a flesh & blood Bay she was adopted by Ronald Bay and was never accepted by any the true Bays. She is referred to as the "bastard child." To this day I don't believe any of them truly like her. Hell not but 3 years ago she made accusations that her adopted father Ronald Bay had molested her when she was a child. How many of you knew that? Pretty sick & twisted lies and thats just the beginning. Keep reading.
In the next post Vicky claims that Ron told me how sorry I was. Hmmm, yeah that never happened. Yes, Ron Bay and I did get into a heated discussion but it was over the fact that he invited Vicky to Maryland where Cory was in the hospital. I told him that Vicky was not welcomed there and we did not want her there. He told me that she was his mother, she had a right to be there, he needed support but never to tell me I was a sorry person. The end of our heated discussion ended like this:
Cory told Ron the same thing I said "Dad I didn't want her here and I didn't want the drama" Vicky showed up later that night and the shit hit the fan the next day when Cory told her she needed to leave. Vicky left. Brandy states Ron is a coward. Is he a coward, no he is not and I know this because his son my husband is just like him and my husband is far from being a coward.
How loosely Brandy just throws around the word (whore). If we all take a step back and think about the numerous relationships that she has been involved in and then to count the number of failed marriages. Guess those men wised up, didn't they Brandy. Where as I on the other dated had a few serious relationships but only have one failed marriage. You should really take a step back and look into the mirror before you make your pathetic comments. Or then we could go off the question did she marry her current husband Joby Smith for his money a.k.a. personal gain which in return makes her a whore again. Then you have a person by the name of Dino Fernandez making his comments to Brandy. Dino, do you realize you do you not realize Vicky does not like you she talks crap about you behind your back. Does a washer/dryer & stolen items from a storage unit ring any bells? Vicky blames you. I would like to address the children of Melvina Fernandez: did you guys know that Brandy is actually the one who called adult protective services on your mother? And they want to say how I have WRONGED your family. Brandy will say that I am lieing but really do some hard thinking....I have not lied I have no reason to lie. I have only spoke the truth where as Brandy is a compulsive bipolar liar & Vicky too. They both love the gossip and Brandy is known for all her lies. What type of person with any morals would call "APS" on their own family?
Brandy then goes on to say how she prays everyday that I will die and go straight to hell. After everything I have done to that family really? What the heck have I done? Please respond to this blog and let me know what I have done. Stop hiding behind your private facebook pages.
Questioning of my child's paternal father: Let me count the number of paternity tests. I got to one. It was for my oldest daughter Mari but thats no secret.
Do I have access to Cory's facebook page? Well of course I do and he has mine. Doesn't every spouse know each others passwords. No secrets in our marriage there's just no need for it.
FROM THE BEGINNING:
On May 2, 2002 I married Cory Bay. We had a child together in high school and rekindled an old flame a few years later. His mother and half-sister have never cared for me and the feelings are mutual.
Vicky brings up a subject about our divorce. About a year or so ago Cory and I started to have marital issues. Mainly because I could not handle his drinking any longer, our communication was shot, there was little romance and we just started to grow as friends not lovers. It was a mutual divorce. We agreed we would sale our assets. The house, the cars, the furniture etc. I would stay in Jacksonville NC so our children could still see their father.
Which brings up another incident. The motorcycle. Once Vicky got word that we were selling our motorcycle she immediately called Brandy and started talking more trash behind my back. I posted our motorcycle for sale on Craigslist but when Brandy got wind of this she then posted an ad on Craigslist countering my ad telling people this:
Harley Davidson fxst softail-AVOID
Date: 2010-06-16, 4:58PMThis seller does not have permission to sell this bike! She does not have the authority and will more than likely forge the title to sell it! Do not get involved with this legal battle!
We were unable to sale motorcycle, Vicky tried to claim she was going to buy it for Cory blah blah blah. She never paid for it of course (all talk) and we were never able to get Mari her braces, pay off some of our other debt etc. Well Hmm, and they really have the audacity to question why we have washed our hands of them once and for all. There is just too many wounds.
Cory and I did not get a divorce we sought out marriage counseling, worked on our communication and well things are always improving for us.
So I will wrap this up. I did not have to convince my husband that Vicky and Brady were crazy they proved it themselves. A huge thank you goes out to Gilda for her words of wisdom. I dealt the cards in this game and let the hand play itself out and in the end I have my husband by my side backing me 100%. Keeping in mind he is no coward and I could not brain wash him. He has always been able to make his own decisions.
Kindest Regards,
April McManus Bay
